There are three sides to every story, one side, the other side, and the truth. When situations arise, there may be innocent bystanders who actually witness the truth. The people causing the chaos who refuse to accept the truth and can never take blame are in danger of losing relationships, friendships, and possibly their jobs.
We won’t see eye to eye with everyone. I prefer to socialize with people who are open-minded, optimistic, and have the same values as I have. My goal in life is to be happy and at peace.
Although we experience difficulties in life, our center or core being provides us the power and strength to overcome them. The center of our being keeps us grounded and well balanced.
The more you engage in the blame game, the more you lose in life. Accusing someone else for a negative situation is a means of defending yourself and avoiding your own flaws and weaknesses. I know because I have done this in the past. I appreciate that those challenging experiences were actually meant for me so that I could learn and grow from them. We get caught up in wanting to be right all the time and are quick to point fingers at others. We need to take responsibility for ourselves or we could be in danger of losing friendships and possibly our jobs.
We have to learn to take care of ourselves mentally, physically, spiritually, financially, and socially.
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